When You Think You Have Add

It's only been about 20 years since the medicallike to stop off along the way and sniff the flowers.
community changed their thinking on ADD. Yet, manyYet, we still have to learn how to adapt to fit into their
doctors still hold the belief that ADD disappears onceworld. How can we do it?
people grow up.Attention deficit coaching is a great way to find out
Adults with attention deficit know differently. Thoughwhat your ADD strengths are and to work with those.
many learn to control their symptoms as adults, forA good coach can help you to find a job that fits your
others, it's impossible, and they continue to struggle withpersonality, to be more organized, or to find a
short attention spans for anything outside their spherecompatible partner. Coaching is often a better solution
of interest and other symptoms related to attentionthan medication, but you'll have to discuss this with
deficit.your family doctor.
However, you may think you have attention deficit,If you are working with a coach, he or she might help
when you really only have ADD tendencies. Take ayou to get your house organized, for instance, to set
test online to see if you might have attention deficit,up some ADD-friendly systems that will help you to do
and then, consider these two things:what's needed. Simple suggestions like having places
First, are the symptoms so severe that they haveyou can just toss things so you'll remember where
disrupted your life? Second, have they lasted for morethey are when you need them becomes simple for
than six months? If you don't have all the symptoms ofyou with the right coach. They'll make sure that you
ADD or if the two qualifiers don't apply to you, thenfind your car keys every single day, without effort!
you probably have only ADD tendencies. But whetherWhether you use coaching or medication or a
you have full-blown attention deficit or only tendenciescombination of both to help you with attention deficit,
of ADD, don't let it stop you!probably nothing will help more than a good support
Diagnosis can be a great relief to some, while othergroup. You can find them offline and online, too. But the
people become depressed. You're looking at ADD thebiggest thing is that you're able to communicate with
wrong way! I like to see ADD as a blessing. Peoplepeople going through the same frustrations as you are.
with attention deficit are usually highly intelligent, andThey have lost their keys a million times, too. You'll
can do things they love to do at the speed of sound.learn more from other people who have attention
Don't look at it as a "disease" or a "disorder." Youdeficit themselves than anyone else.
might like to know that part of the medical communityRemember to think of ADD as a blessing, and not as
actually see ADD as the next evolution of the humana curse. If you recently learned that you have adult
brain. We're just accommodating the way the 21stattention deficit, try to see it in a positive light. The
Century evolves--at the speed of light.sooner you do, the sooner you'll b able to rise to your
But we still live as a minority in a world of linear-thinkingfull potential. See ADD as a joy and you'll make much
people. They don't really understand the way we think.faster progress.
Their brains go down straight pathways, whereas ours