Parents Ask - When is it Time to Refer My 8-9 Year Old to a Mental Health Professional?

There are two out-of-character behaviors thatAttention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
parents may begin to see in their children as early asJust about everyone has heard of this and ADD.
the age of eight. With both, you may at first attributeParents should be careful not to diagnose their own
them to just moodiness or stubbornness or beingchild with ADHD or ADD just because they are
fidgety and distracted.occasionally forgetful or daydream or act without
Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)thinking every once in awhile. If your child does have
If your child occasionally disobeys, talks back, andADD or ADHD, the symptoms will show up by about
argues with you, especially when they are tired orthe age of seven.
hungry or maybe under a little stress, it could just beThe true symptoms can be a myriad of conflicting
part of his or her normal development. But if thisthings. A child with ADD or ADHD can be both
behavior gets to the point where the child is constantlyhyperactive and a daydreamer. The hyperactive part
and blatantly hostile and uncooperative, enough that itof the child may fidget, move around constantly, talk
affects his or her relationships with teachers, friendsexcessively, and be unable to play quietly. When the
and family, it's possible that your child may havechild is the daydreamer, he won't pay attention and will
Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Some of themake careless mistakes, can't remain focused, is easily
more typical symptoms are:o Temper tantrumsodistracted, and will frequently misplace things. Add to
Arguing with authority figureso Trying to annoythese the characteristic of impulsivity and the child can
peopleo Displays of anger and resentmento Mean andbecome a handful.
hateful talkA mental health professional can help you by
There really is no definable cause for this behavior, butpinpointing diagnoses and recommending treatment
many things can play a part in a child exhibiting thesewhich may mean therapy, an exercise plan to help
types of outbursts. If you feel your child's behavior fitsburn all that energy, and doing things around the house
into this description, you may want to consult a mentalto minimize distractions. If necessary a psychiatrist
health professional and have him or her evaluated.may even prescribe medication that can help if these
ODD can be treated with parental techniques, butthings strategies do not work. Ultimately, the best form
these children often can be extremely difficult forof treatment is therapy and medication combined.
parents to deal with on their own.