Depression and Attention Deficit Disorder - Tips For Parents Part I

If your child has Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorderthan it should, sometimes hours. Your child complains
you will know it early on. Hyperactive children arehe cannot concentrate without music or TV playing.
nearly always identified by the teachers in elementary(Kids with attention problems are helped to
school, because they are so disruptive in class.concentrate by distracting noises). Your child may also
But what about the child with mild ADD, (Inattentiveshow other signs of ADD, such as social problems or
Type)? These are the kids who dream through school.anger problems.
Their problems are often not noticed by the teachers.Another problem that can look very similar to mild
If the child is bright, he can often do well in elementaryADD in young teens is mild Depression. The symptoms
school without really trying.can be very similar - loss of interest in school and
Once the child gets to middle school, it is a whole newfailing grades, refusal to do homework, increasing social
ball game. Skills needed to do well in middle schoolproblems and problems with anger or negativity. The
such as - keeping tabs on many classes andtiming is also similar. Early adolescence is a time when
homework due dates, tracking complex assignments,there can be an onset of mild Depression in some
learning and remembering detailed information, andchildren.
concentrating during classes and homework - areIf the situation is unclear, it is important to get a
noticeably missing in kids with attention problems. Oftendiagnosis of your child. The schools do not test for
middle school is the first sign of trouble for ADD kids.Attention Deficit. Your pediatrician can make the
A whole new skill set is required. Even for children withdiagnosis. If you suspect a mild Depression or are not
no attention problems, middle school is a difficultsure what is going on, a mental health professional
adjustment.who specializes in working with teens can help. You
The signs of mild Attention Deficit Disorder can becan go to a Psychologist, Marriage and Family
unclear to parents. Some common patterns are: YourTherapist or a Psychiatrist. Once you have a diagnosis
child has one teacher each quarter that he does notof the problem, you will know what treatment is likely
like. In other classes he does well. In this class he isto be effective.
failing. The subject he does poorly in changes fromIt is important to treat any child who is suffering from
quarter to quarter. (ADD kids can only pay attention topoor or uneven school performance, social issues, or
subjects and teachers they are interested in). You childpersistent bad moods. Successful treatment will allow
often misses homework assignments completely, oryour child to get back on track and continue his normal
does them but never turns them in. His backpack looksdevelopment. If these problems are left untreated, they
like a disaster area. (ADD kids are disorganized andcan lead to low self-esteem and more serious
scattered.) Homework is a struggle, taking much longerproblems in later adolescence and early adulthood.