| tart --> | | | | relationships, as well as the people who are in them, |
| Here's a list of 5 things to consider if you and your ex | | | | are constantly growing and changing? |
| are thinking about getting back together again. | | | | 4. Did you learn that you can live without him? - One |
| 1. Have past issues been resolved? - Maybe you | | | | of the biggest reasons that people stay in bad |
| haven't even discussed the break up. If not, you're | | | | relationships, or rekindle a bad relationship is because |
| definitely not ready to get back together. But if you' ve | | | | they think they can't live without their partner. You both |
| at least come to a clear understanding of the issue | | | | should have learned that that is not the case. Did you |
| that caused the breakup, then check this one off the | | | | both find a way to enjoy life while you were |
| list. | | | | separated? If yes, than mark this one off. |
| 2. Did both of you learn anything from this breakup? - | | | | 5. Are your life goals and core beliefs basically aligned? |
| Break ups don't just happen over night and without | | | | - Can you at least support each other on the paths |
| good reason. If you've discussed the issue and learned | | | | that you've chosen and help each other along the |
| how to prevent it from happening again, then check | | | | way? |
| this one off, too. | | | | Tomorrow, I have more tips for you, and more things |
| 3. Does your future together look promising? - When | | | | to add to that checklist - we all know how important |
| you look into the future of your relationship, does it look | | | | checklists are, don't we? |
| different than the past? Do you both understand that | | | | |