Adult Add: The Outer Limits

ve definite ideas about ADD and the place for peopleYou were probably constantly asking questions. When
in the world who have it. We think they're lucky!you were growing up and asked, “Why does it
They're generally intelligent, creative, and dynamic. Butwork this way?” or “Why is this
ADD does present certain limitations.happening this way?” or “Why do we
Our thoughts on that go like this:have to do it this way?” was your answer
People with ADD think so fast and move so fast thatalways, “Because, that’s the way it
a lot of people can’t understand us.is,”?
We’re a minority of the population. The majorityYou were probably bored.
of the population has such a step-by-step,Boredom is an issue for all ADD people. But there's
linear-thinking approach, and what is exciting to asomething you can do, if you have something really
person like that is so slow and the exact opposite forimportant to read or do that's boring you to tears.
us.Learn the cue. What ADD behavior do you exhibit
The first thing is just to be aware that we get boredwhen you're bored? Do you shake your foot? Get up
really easily. What is exciting to those of us with ADDand start moving around? Move directly on to
is so different than what is exciting to a linear thinker. Ifsomething else, and something else, and something
you have ADD, know that you’re going to getelse, and nothing gets done? When those things
bored. And when that happens, you’re probablyhappen, recognize when the "bored" action kicks in.
exhibiting an ADD symptom like jumping from one thingTime your endurance.
to the next.Then, set a timer that's just a minute or two shy of
Do you say to yourself, "I should be able to sit downthat. Set the timer, do the boring thing, and when the
and fill out the application," or "I should be able to take atimer sounds, stop! Later, or another day, you can do
test,"?the same thing all over again. That way, you'll never
We force ourselves into trying to do these boringreach the point of boredom, and it won't be so hard
things, because we were told that we should. In mostgetting back into the boring thing the next time. Plus,
cases, by really boring people—people whoeventually, you'll get it done. These ADD-friendly
couldn’t brainstorm their way out of asystems are very important, and can help you
cardboard box.succeed where others fail.