ADHD and ADD Symptoms Are Normal Behavior

The Mayo Clinic website says "the exact cause ofS (Steadiness): introverted, people-oriented. Low S
ADHD remains a mystery...." No one has yetdescriptors: Mobile, Active, Restless, Variety-Oriented,
determined what ADHD actually is, yet proponentsImpatient, Impulsive, Impetuous, Hypertense. (Note:
keep telling us it exists - that it's a behavior "disorder" inthese are normal behaviors in the Low S person.)
children and adults. The website says "heredity is theChildren and adults with a Low S behavioral style need
most common cause of ADHD," but goes on to sayto move around; they get restless when they have to
that "studies do not identify specific genes linked to thesit for long periods. People with a High S factor are the
disorder." I'm no scientist, but that's not good enough foropposite. High S descriptors: Passive, Patient,
me to believe it.Consistent, Deliberate, Steady, Stable.
I would like to offer an expert behavior definition andC (Compliance): introverted, task-oriented. Low C
explanation of ADHD "symptoms" that show they aredescriptors: Self-Willed, Stubborn, Unsystematic,
actually normal behavior in people with certain behaviorUninhibited, Arbitrary, Careless with Details.
types. In 1928, Harvard psychologist William MoultonPeople with a Low C behavioral style tend to bend or
Marston first defined the four DISC behavioral styles inbreak rules. They are careless with details and tend to
his book The Emotions of Normal People.be disorganized. People with a High C style are the
That's NORMAL people.opposite. They are extremely organized and
In my 15 years as a Certified Professional Behavioraldetail-oriented. High C descriptors: Careful, Cautious,
Analyst, my colleagues and I have done DISCNeat, Systematic, Exacting, Accurate.
personality testing on hundreds of thousands of peopleNormal Behavior
using the DISC assessment developed by TargetSince all four of these high and low behavioral styles
Training International (TTI), and based on Dr. Marston'sare natural and normal, where did we get the idea that
findings. People are either high or low in eachonly the High S and C are appropriate behavior? I
behavioral style and that determines how they dosuspect it began in a classroom. I am a former public
things.school teacher, so I know teachers like for students to
Symptoms - of what?be quiet and studious in class, complete their
According to webmd.com, some of the most commonassignments, sit still, and not speak without raising their
symptoms of ADHD are:hands. This is easy for introverted children with High S
• An inability to pay attention to details and aand C, Low D and I behavioral styles - and difficult for
tendency to make careless mistakes. (As opposed toextroverted students with High D and I, Low S and C
careful mistakes?)factors.
• Being easily distracted by irrelevant stimuli; i.e. noiseSomewhere along the way we labeled children as
or events. (I have a problem with the word "irrelevant;"being abnormal and having a behavior "disorder" if they
according to whom?)didn't fit a particular (quiet, easy to manage) behavioral
• Disorganized work habits.pattern. Those children kept that stigma into adulthood
• Failure to complete tasks.and now we have people like Howie Mandel claiming
• Talking excessively.on the Internet to be "one of the 10 million adults in the
• Not listening to others.United States who may have Attention Deficit
• Not following rules.Hyperactivity Disorder." (At least he says "may" have.)
• Fidgeting when seated; getting up frequently toMany of us who are behavior specialists have a
walk or run around.serious problem with the hypocrisy of telling children
• Impatience.not to do drugs to hype themselves up, but to do
• Frequently interrupting others.drugs to calm themselves down. It's also a shame that
Descriptorsmany adults use the excuse that "I have ADHD" in
One of the pages in TTI's DISC assessment is entitled,order not to improve themselves or do things they
"Descriptors." These are words that describe a normaldon't want to do.
person's DISC behavioral style, according to Dr.People who have claimed to me to have ADHD say
Marston and TTI:they have trouble focusing on tasks. I ask them if they
D (Dominance): extroverted, task-oriented. High Dhave trouble focusing when they're doing something
descriptors: Demanding, Driving, Strong-Willed, Forceful,they really enjoy. To a person, they've all said, "No." If
Determined, Aggressive, Inquisitive.they had a chemical, genetic, or otherwise behavior
Adults and children with a Core D behavioral style tenddisorder that kept them from focusing, how could they
to be impatient, multi-tasker types who arefocus on anything, ever?
variety-oriented and get bored with the status quo.Successful Behaviors
They want to move on to another task or projectSome of the most successful people in the world
when their current one becomes routine. People with ahave the High D/I, Low S/C behavioral style. For
Low D style are the opposite. Low D descriptors:example (besides Howie Mandel): Donald Trump,
Cooperative, Low-Keyed, Cautious, Agreeable,Oprah Winfrey, Michael Jordan, and Julia Roberts.
Modest, Unobtrusive.The same goes for people high in the S/C and low in
I (Influencing): extroverted, people-oriented. High Ithe D/I styles. For example, Bill Gates, Martha Stewart,
descriptors: Effusive, Demonstrative, Enthusiastic,Steven Covey, and Meryl Streep.
Magnetic, Persuasive.There would be a lot more well-adjusted children and
Those with a Core I behavioral style tend to talkadults in society if parents, educators, physicians, and
excessively and be poor listeners, often interruptingbosses would study DISC behavior, learn how to
people. Their strongest psychological need is tomanage and relate to people with different behavior
verbalize and socialize with others. Beingtypes, and allow people of all ages to be who they
people-oriented, they can easily become distracted byreally are.
other people when working on a task - especially oneHow about let's start treating people as equals,
they don't find stimulating. People with a Low I style arebeginning in childhood, and stop telling half the population
the opposite. Low I descriptors: Reflective, Factual,there is something wrong with them. Because there's
Calculating, Logical, Undemonstrative.not.