A Parable About Fear

What are you afraid of?"I always wanted to," was all he said.
Remember when we were young and some kid wasAbout that time I looked up at one of the TV's over
trying to get you to crawl in a hole or something. Hethe bar and saw, on one of the "News" channels, a
would always dare us with a phrase like, "What arestory about corporate CEO's getting millions of dollars
you scared of?" For some reason, "Snakes, spiders,for running their companies, customers and country into
ghosts, cave-ins and suffocation," were apparently notthe ground. I pointed to the TV and asked, "Why do
sufficient answers. The human animal (OK, mostly justthey do it?"
the male of the species) will do anything to avoid being"I guess that's what they always wanted to do," the
called, "chicken." I wonder if this applies to chickens.officer shrugged.
Maybe the government should do some researchIt reminded me of a young friend who served three
The question is coming up a lot in these uncertaintours in the Gulf, one in Afghanistan and two in Iraq. He
times. Isn't it amazing how many of the things we arewas wounded and served valiantly. At his coming
afraid of were, until recently, called institutions of ourhome party I asked him if he had been scared. He
society? Banks and brokers have replaced spiderssaid, "Sure, I'm not stupid. But what really scares most
and snakes in our nightmares. But I was recentlyof the guys over there is when we hear what we're
witness to an awful event that led me to believe theredoing compared to Vietnam."
is hope for the future. I was at my favorite wateringI joked that I would have thought it would be those
hole when a lady across the room just lost it. Shebullets going really fast around your head.He said, "I'm
went into hysterics and started screaming and thenserious. When they compare us to Vietnam, I'm afraid
passed out on the floor.they are going to take it over and run it from
The management called the police, who got thereWashington, and make it another Vietnam."
quickly and handled the situation professionally and withMy young friend is more than a hero. He is a man of
a noticeable amount of compassion for the woman.character. He is studying business at the University,
After the EMT's had taken her away, one of thenow.
officers was doing his paperwork. I said, "Dirty job," andWhat am I afraid of? I'm afraid my friend will come out
he just looked at me and nodded.of college, and we will just have another businessman.
"Why do you do it?" I asked.That would be like plucking a rose and planting a weed.